Research shows that about 90% of the people who read online media do not actually participate in the conversation, consumption vs production. I understand, communicating online is not for everyone.

However a percentage of that 90% are not lurking because they want to but because they feel like they have to. They are staying in the closet because they can not yet let people know about their career break plans. They must stay in the closet in order to remain at their jobs and while they quietly plan their getaway.